Exactly one year ago today, on top of Cadillac Mountain in Bar Harbor, Maine, at sunrise my H2B better known as Ben,
This past year has been a whirlwind and in 5 short weeks, we will be married. And on our way to Hawaii!
I'm not going to lie, planning a wedding is tough work, and really is tough on your relationship, thankfully, Ben and I are great together and we can work through anything. Ben has been an important part in planning our special day. I can't wait to spend the rest of my life with him.
Today also happens to be the RSVP date. I am still missing at least 35 RSVP's.... argh....
As mentioned in a previous post, the other issue I am having is with my "single" friends wanting to bring a date/SO/random to my wedding. It's hard to have to keep telling people that my numbers are tight and I just really can't allow it. I feel like a bitch, but at the same time, I have to be. This is definitely way out of my comfort zone. I feel like those people are putting guilt trips on me about it, but really, a fair amount of the "singles" who want to bring a date, I've never been formally introduced to their date. Why would I want a random at my wedding? Am I being a bridezilla on this?
Now granted there is one friend who I made a horrible mistake on, she actually is living with her boyfriend, and has been for quite some time, I wasn't aware of that, and when we made our guest list last fall, I didn't include her boyfriend. A total faux pas on my part. IF any extra guests are allowed, she is the FIRST one to bring her boyfriend.
Stressed is just desserts spelled backwards, right!? Pass the wedding cake!